Monthly Archives: February 2023

David Bunney – The Lifestyle Mentor Tells You How to Achieve A Balanced Life

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David Bunney – The Lifestyle Mentor has been helping people achieve a balanced, happy life by changing the way they have been doing things till date. Trying to earn a living for the family is tough. It is tougher to still be able to find time to spend with the family and have some time to do what you like. Several people struggle to find the ideal balance between both and David Bunney’s simple three step strategy teaches them just how to do it.

A Balanced Life is Not Easy to Achieve

Making a lifestyle change requires you to challenge your thinking and questions your actions. You will first have to sit and think about what you want your future to be really like. A lifestyle is an integrated, consistent way of life which would be based on the possessions, attitudes and manners of the person. There are plenty of people who are quite successful in their careers, have a decent income but don’t find to enjoy it at all. Others may be busy with their relationships and families and hardly find any time for themselves or their health. Your health may be suffering, your family life would be unhappy or you may find yourself locked in a career that you have no passion about.

Where to Begin

David Bunney – The Lifestyle Mentor says that you should first summarize your life in eight different sections. These will include career, personal, health, recreation, finance, relationships, community and spiritual. If you focus too much on just one area and neglect the others then your life will be unbalanced. Having a lot of money would be no good if you don’t have anyone else to share it with or enjoy it yourself. Similarly, having a successful career would be no good if it is only harming your health.

Finding the Answers

While achieving a perfectly balanced life may seem to be a daunting task, David Bunney – The Lifestyle Mentor says that there is a simple approach to this problem. Based on his personal life experiences he developed an easy 3 step program called Mindset Mechanics Mentors. This program can be used for achieving almost anything. It works really well if it is applied correctly and can be used as many times as you want.

It may take some time and effort on your part but it will definitely turn your life around and make you feel better about yourself, your relationships, your career and your life in general.

To learn more about David Bunney- The Lifestyle Mentor and his 3M plan as well as other invaluable resources and information, please visit https://davidbunney.com.

Igbozue Connecticut USA Honors Their Wives in a Family Night Event

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On December 13, 2013, Igbozue Connecticut USA held an all night family party. It was an opportunity for the Igbozue men to thank their wives. There were many reasons for these men to do so. It is the women who provided, among other good deeds throughout the unfolding year, hospitable homes when members of the group host monthly meetings.

Igbozue family night is an annual event. This particular event was surprisingly different from earlier ones in three main ways: the event-threatening snow, the big fat cake from ‘IWAC’ and the win or lose anxiety of the raffle.

Igbozue Connecticut USA is a non for profit organization that encourages social interaction among the Igbos- one of the major ethnic groups in Nigeria.

The men presented their token gifts and the women received them in full admiration. In an all out display of gratitude, the women danced glowingly in a way that only Igbo men would understand.

IWAC, Igbo Women Association of Connecticut which is the female counterpart of Igbozue Connecticut, had something under wraps for one of their members who had retired and is about to move. They wanted to honor her with a gift. Halfway through the party, it was still a toss-up if the recipient will show up.

Then bingo, she showed up. The dancing crowd went wilder as the Dj played ‘Udor Akpuenyi’ (one cannot pull an elephant on a leash) by Sunny Bobo.

Not familiar with the rhythm of the music, children danced exuberantly in missteps while the oldies danced in measured steps to the beat and lyrics.

The Honoree, Professor Omaa Chukwurah, is a founding member of IWAC. Many misty eyes and cracked voices emerged as peers gave testimonies and recounted their interactions with her. Then it was time to devour the cake.

The indefatigable DJ, Joe Anyafulu had the music right. He delivered soul and highlife music that made guests dance most of the night.

Attendees said that it was a party to remember. Men bantered and laughed heartily while women held conversation and smiled. What started as a shaky night later became one of the organizations most memorable Christmas events.

The raffle generated lots of excitement. There were five winners. Mrs. Eneh won the first prize of a Godiva gift basket containing gourmet chocolate bar and glass tea cups. Mrs. Lolo Anna Okonkwo won a Christmas wreath. The Oredo family from Stamford won a set of Wild-Eye table knives and spoons and the fourth prize, ‘How Broccoli Head Lost Thirty Pounds’, went to Mrs. Pat Anekwe.

The event took place at the executive-inn and suite in Meriden Connecticut. It began at 8 pm with the breaking of the kola nuts, ended at 12.30 A.M with a toast of Champaign. Members came in from different places within the state of Connecticut. A guest came from as far as Stamford. My spouse and I came from Sandy Hook.

Food and drink were plentiful. On the dinner tables were the usual suspects of goat meat, bitter leaf soup, fried plantain, jollof rice, moi-moi, roasted fish, chicken and rice. There was salad for the health-conscious attendees.

The President of the association, Mr. Polycarp Okeke was thankful to participants and praised them for supporting the group despite the bad weather and he reminded guests to drive home safely.

Sure Signs of Being Cursed

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If you’re reading this, it’s likely that you want to know more about curses. Perhaps you suspect that a curse or hex may have been placed upon you. If so, keep reading. Or perhaps you just want to stay protected from curses. This is the article for you then, too. Whatever your interest, these are the top ten signs that you are almost certainly cursed:

10. Nightmares, night terrors, sleep paralysis, or strange nighttime sensations. One of the most evident symptoms of being cursed or hexed is trouble sleeping. This can range from sleep paralysis and nightmares to simply having an unusually restless sleep. While everyone has the occasional nightmare, consistent experiences of nightmares is a strong indication a curse has been placed on an individual.

9. Loss of energy. Curses and hexes can turn individuals described as vibrant and positive to dull and boring. Fatigue and sudden loss of energy is a strong symptom of most curses. This is especially true for curses and hexes placed to drain individuals of their energy. Psychic vampires are notable for working in this fashion.

8. Misfortune of loved ones. If loved ones or people close to you suddenly start experiencing an unusual amount of misfortune, this is a clear symptom a curse has been placed. While we expect curses to affect the person they are placed upon, it doesn’t always work like that. This is because some curses are directed at damaging a person’s entire life, which includes harming those around the victim. These types of curses are becoming increasingly common, and unfortunately can be devastating.

7. Financial or property loss. Sudden and unexpected losses of property or financial loss are good indicators of a curse. Many curses are intended to affect a specific aspect of a person’s life, such as finances, health, or relationships. Anything from being laid off at work to becoming the victim of (supposedly) random vandalism can be the outcomes of a financial curse. If you’ve experienced sudden financial losses, it’s worth asking if you’ve been cursed.

6. Relationship trouble. Curses directed at harming relationships may be the most abundant curses in existence. Curses of this nature can turn happy and healthy marriages into trainwreck failure marriages, so beware. It’s very common for things to be going perfectly and then suddenly, without warning, to take a turn for the worst.

5. Deterioration of health. While sickness has many natural causes and should always be appraised by qualified medical professionals, it is important to note that magical curses and hexes do, in fact, cause sickness. Healthy individuals can be made sick instantly with some curses, while other curses manifest themselves as gradual declines in health.

4. Legal trouble. Lawsuits and criminal charges may often stem from curses. Curses can manifest themselves in such a fashion that innocent people are accused of crimes or torts, or may actually incline people to engage in criminal behavior that may result in their misfortunes. Whatever the case, if an individual suddenly experiences legal trouble it can be a symptom of being cursed.

3. Direct perceptions of being cursed. Some curses are more obvious, causing individuals to be directly tormented by hallucinations or delusions. Additionally, as some employ spiritual beings the victim may find themselves directly harassed by such entities. As the saying goes, if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it’s probably a duck. If a person has strong experiences of being cursed, there is a good chance they are.

2. Sudden and serious illness. As opposed to a gradual reduction in health, sudden and serious illnesses are strong symptoms of harmful magics at work. These usually manifest themselves as specific, serious illnesses that afflict the victim acutely. As the nature of these curses are especially dangerous, they should be dealt with as soon as possible.

1. Death. Yes, people can actually die from curses. Death by harmful magic can manifest itself in a myriad of ways, from suicide to sickness to car accident. Unfortunately, after this symptom is present it is already too late to help the victim. The key is to block and remove curses before this occurs, not wait until after. Additionally, powerful curses may even harm those around the intended victim, so it is important to deal with them in any situation.

All of the symptoms listed above are indications a curse has been placed on someone. Individually they are not proof per se, but collectively they should be taken as strong evidence. What this means is that if someone experiences one or more of the symptoms above, they should seriously consider that a curse may be the cause of it. The more symptoms there are, the stronger the likelihood a curse has been placed.

However, a curse is no reason to lose hope. At the fist sign of evidence a curse has been placed immediate action should be taken to remove the curse. Additionally, there are ways to prevent a curse. Caution should be taken, however, when attempting to fight a curse, as inexperienced casters may actually compound it and make it worse. You should seek out a professional witch to remove or protect you from curses.

How Your Dysfunctional Family Triggers Can Hold You Back If You’re An Abuse Survivor in Overcoming Low Self-Esteem

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A school bus is teetering on the edge of a bridge ready to fall 500 feet downwards into the ravine below. All of a sudden a red and blue blur zips in from out of nowhere and the school bus is pushed back onto the bridge. It’s Superman. Nearby, a cyborg walks onto the bridge holding a piece of green rock. Superman’s legs start buckling and he starts feeling really sick. It turns out the cyborg is holding the one thing that can trigger Superman’s downfall. It’s Kryptonite.

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Do you ever find that your family can bring you to your knees like this?

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One minute you’re standing strong, and the next minute a cutting remark or something they do just rips you apart emotionally. This is what I call a dysfunctional family trigger. Something someone says or does in your dysfunctional family wreaks havoc with your feelings of well-being.

If you’re trying to overcome low self-esteem, this can be a bit of a heartache for you. You’re trying your best to break new ground in your life, and all of a sudden someone is saying “you can’t do it” or some other negative remark.

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Of course, one of the most effective ways to build self-esteem is to try things which engage and challenge you and to keep doing them.

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To do this, you have to be willing to put feelings of “I’m not good enough” behind you and take action. Of course, if you’ve got dysfunctional family triggers bringing you to your knees like Superman on Kryptonite, it’s going to be tougher for you to do this.

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That’s why you’ve got to do 3 things to combat this problem.

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1) Put some distance between you and your dysfunctional family. Spend less time with them (or stop spending time with them altogether). 2) Start seeing a therapist if you’re not already. A good therapist will teach you how to set healthy boundaries and other important life skills to help you build yourself up if you’re an abuse survivor. 3) Keep doing the activities that you find engaging and that bring you a sense of purpose and accomplishment.

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I realize you may feel like you’d have no one to turn to if you dropped the dysfunctional people out of your life.

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It’s a scary proposition. That’s why I suggest you see a therapist. A good therapeutic relationship can help make you feel safer as you make changes in your life. It can help you understand why you react the way you do to your family, and more importantly, how to stop.

Dealing with dysfunctional family triggers can help you get rid of the negative drag in your life as you’re growing your sense of confidence. Instead of being brought to your knees like Superman on Kryptonite, you’ll be a bit more like Superman leaping a tall building. And that’s something worth fighting for.